Saturday, 29 November 2025

Y is for You (again)

In the 2022 A - Z 192 people left a comment with where they were in the world......192!!

 From Amsterdam to Australia and Canada to Colchester and all over the USA and the UK. It was amazing to see how far and wide readers of my ramblings were living. I think it will be hard to beat that number as page views are way down from 2022.

But I'll give it a go.................so ............. who are you and where are you? (Country or County - not your actual address!)

Did you comment in 2022? or have you only been reading more recently?

It will be fun to see.


The Alphabet ends tomorrow..............(thank goodness!)

Friday, 28 November 2025

X is for Xmas Fairs

 Not many things for X  so it's Xmas Fairs again! the same as 2023

With the end of car boot sales I find these are fun to go to, to get me out and about at the weekends, people to speak to, appreciating all the crafts, the chance of a nice find  and as promised in the F is for Fundraisers post I've been to several. Although strictly speaking................ 

The first, which was furthest away, wasn't fundraising for anything except the business putting on the event (Bridge Farm Barns) and the individuals selling their own antique/vintage and craft things. I enjoyed this event last year so it was good to go again and I  had a lovely look round and bought a couple of small things for a gift, the wreath that was on the W post and................



...................................had my first celebratory coffee and cheese scone in their café 😄



 The second was a small  proper craft fair, mainly stitched things, there wasn't anything I wanted but I bought a cup cake to take home to have with  my Sunday afternoon cuppa.

Number 3 was in Stowupland Village hall and I called in on my way back from shopping. I had a go on their raffle as they had 5 large hampers of food as prizes - but no phone call came 😞. I bought a small jar of fig, apple and balsamic vinegar chutney for £3 which sounded interesting - haven't tried it yet and found a copy of The Shropshire Lad and Other poems by A. E. Housman for 50p- I'm getting quite a collection of poetry books now - need to have a sort out.

The 4th was the 'Grand Christmas Market' held in the main hall of Stowmarket Leisure Centre. Much of the stuff for sale was tat! which was a shame as it made the proper hand-made items look very expensive. It was ever so busy. In 2023  I couldn't stay long as scented candles and other smellies set me off coughing but I was OK  to have a good look round this time, although I  didn't find  anything I wanted.


The fifth was advertised as a Christmas Sale with Charity stalls at the United Reformed Church in Diss on a Friday and as I needed to go to Diss for Morrisons anyway I went to have a look and spent £1 for three Christmas tree decorations from a stall raising money for Guide Dogs for the Blind.


Then I went round all the Diss charity shops and in the Big C Charity shop on my way out of town I found something for my friends Church fund raiser - The Nativity Scene display.




Christmas Fair number 6 is my favourite as it's in Son and DiL's village church and we've been meeting up at this since the Christmas after Col died in 2018. It's always packed with people and we have a cuppa and cake on wobbly tables - because the church floor is so uneven - drinks usually get spilled! -  and lots of goes on the tombola. This year I was the only person whose tickets won anything - and actually two useful things that will be used as part of Christmas gifts.  
 I bought one Christmas gift and forgot to take any photos.

The 7th I called into on my way home  after the 6th but bought nothing and there were other fairs I could have gone to Saturday afternoon and Sunday but the weather was awful and I'd spent enough so stayed at home. 

There's a choice of around 8 various fairs happening this coming weekend, but I won't be going to more than one as the car is in for repair to the suspension bushes next week so better not drive far.

There are several more fairs/fayres on the 6th of December and then the one-off Christmas car-boot sale on the 13th. Then it's just another two weeks until Christmas!


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PS for readers from afar who often ask what a tombola stall is...........

In the United Kingdom, a tombola is a form of raffle in which prizes are pre-assigned to winning tickets. Typically numbered raffle tickets are used, with prizes allocated to all those ending in a particular digit (traditionally a five or a zero). Players pay for a ticket, which they then draw at random from a hat or tombola drum, and can instantly see whether they have won a prize. Tombolas are popular at events such as village fêtes and coffee mornings, when it is expected that not all the players will be present at the end of the event.



Thursday, 27 November 2025

W for Widow, Winter and a Wreath

I don't write about the bad days of being a widow, how losing the person I shared everything with for 39 years is hard - really hard - even after 7 years. Part of my life and hopes went when Colin died and I know I would be a much better Mum and Nanna with him by my side.
 This year, for reasons known - which I've not written about - and unknown, has been extra tough  and I've been feeling very unsettled.

Then going into October, I was a bit poorly and got worried about the winter coming and wondered what I could do to prepare - not with things like buying food or filling the heating oil tank, but mentally - how on earth would I get through my 8th winter alone?

Deciding that the only way was to get organised so I planned things to do and wrote a list - always a list...........

  • Make sure to get outside for a while on sunny days
  • Jigsaw puzzles - one each month except December when I need the table for Christmassy things
  • Fill in my new diary
  • Link all the church visit posts to the big church list
  • Find things to write about for the blog
  • Get out and about to visit Christmas Fairs etc in November and December
  • Stay warm and cosy during Just -stay-in-January
  • Make sure to have plenty to read all through winter

I'm not a person who treats myself  to handbags, clothes or fancy stuff but I decided on a treat of a coffee advent calendar for December and a box of hot chocolate sachets and the chocolate liqueurs for after Christmas. Then up popped a message offering 10 weeks of Radio Times Magazine for £10 and as I'd be buying the Christmas/New Year edition anyway, to see what's on TV and that will probably be nearly £10 this year it seemed like a good idea for added interest to the second half of November, all of December and January. I just have to remember to cancel the subscription later.


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There were Christmas wreath making workshop events  in lots of places around about ranging in price from not too much up to £75!! (I would want Gold Plated for that price!!). I'm afraid I cheated again and bought an everlasting (that means mainly plastic!) wreath for the front door for £7 from one of the Christmas Fayres, hand made by the person selling them who was doing a roaring trade. My front door has a porch roof over so the wreath should last for a few years .


I'll hang it on the door on the 1st.

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