Saturday 22 June 2019

Another Week in Suffolk

Something I'm still getting used to after 38 years of marriage is sometimes finding living alone is Hard Work. Both mentally and physically.  Every thing that needs doing in the house and garden has to be done  myself - it's obvious really but still catches up on me now and again..............there's a limit to how much gadding about as well as house-keeping, gardening, planning and organising a person can cope with..........I'm learning that every now and again I need a quiet week.

This last week was one of those weeks.

So on Monday I stayed at home all day  until evening WI, enjoying the sunshine - although a bit of grass cutting was done where I'd forgotten to do over the weekend and some hoeing through the beetroot and onions, around the rhubarb and where the Runner Beans will go. Spotted the male Bullfinch to go with the female I saw last week.

   

On Tuesday I stayed at home except for going to pick up my prescription meds from the doctors pharmacy and tying that in with cheap meal day for pensioners at the Fish and Chip shop in the same village. While at home I went round half the hedge cutting out the brambles and pulling up the nettles so that I can get closer with the ride on mower. Also weeded the strawberry bed while I was picking a bowl full.

On Wednesday I stayed at home all day, the weather was gloomy after a lot of rain overnight. I read a bit, did the ironing and sorted out all my craft papers ready to clear out the majority. I thought I would watch tennis from Queens club - but when I turned on it was 'rain stopped play'

On Thursday I stayed at home all day. The day started sunny but soon clouded up again although the washing got dry easily. I baked and made bread (well the bread maker did the real work) and then got my new "toy" sorted - details next week and finally got to watch some tennis. 

On Friday I went to Diss to meet up with Rachel From Norfolk for a coffee, a bit of shopping and then home to watch tennis.

So my quiet week isn't a week doing nothing but a week without plans and driving too far. Means I missed swimming and going to visit Youngest Daughter and Florence and didn't go to Stowmarket and the Household recycling centre which I'd planned but I do feel much better for a less dashing about week.

Here's an occasional  new feature for my Saturday round up posts.............
A weeks main meals, just to prove to my family that I'm still eating 'proper' meals even if I have gone off 'proper' cooking!

  • Mushroom Tagliatelle ( I got some smoked paprika, makes a big difference)
  • Tuna Pasta Salad........ taken to the  small WI garden party, so there were lots of other things to eat too including too many delicious deserts.
  • Pensioners Fish and Chips meal with home grown lettuce and cucumber.
  • Mushroom Omelette (remainder of mushrooms after using half for the tagliatelle)
  • Home made Sausage rolls with vegetables out of the freezer.
  • A portion of  home made veggie curry from the freezer with rice and half a big naan bread.
  • A value range small pizza topped with home made topping and more cheese. With lettuce and cucumber from the garden
Lunches have been the leftover tuna pasta salad brought home from the garden party; Cheese sandwich and salad stuff; and more of the home made sausage rolls with salad stuff.

This week I'm Grateful for -
The mixed weather that has helped the plants
Being happy to stay at home
Meeting up with another blogger


Hope everyone has a good weekend. I'll be car-booting of course and  I'm going to some open gardens in the village where I went to primary school which is also the village where I spent a lot of time in my early teenage years - just hanging around! Wonder if I'll see any of the people I used to hang around with? Will I recognise anyone after 50 years?

Back Monday
Sue

23 comments:

  1. Like you I live alone and do everything, people with partners just don’t get it do they. One friend has never even put fuel in their car, their partner has always done it. Glad you caught up outside, the climbing beans have gone mad here and we are having fa bulbous sunsets. I don’t cook at all, saves time and washing up.

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    1. I didn't put fuel in the car either for most of my married life or order a chinese takeaway, or converse with tradesmen about doing work. We had his and her jobs and I'm now learning all the His jobs so I can do both!

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  2. Glad you have managed to get caught up, I am still struggling to get on top of the garden. Rain and Gerard not been able to help has made it hard work. Have a wonderful weekend.

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    1. Too much grass cutting - the mixed weather is lovely for grass!

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  3. I don't think I will ever acclimatise to living alone. Hardest part is that workmen just don't come when they say they will for the jobs you can't do yourself. Glad you enjoyed the mushroom dish with the added smoked paprika. It really is a delicious spice. I like it on chips {with a little salt, no vinegar}

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  4. Nice to see you yesterday. I enjoyed our chat. My brother arrived to cut the grass when I got home and then I had a chat with him. A nice way to spend a Friday. Thank you.

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    1. Good to see you too. I'll write the Next meet up in Eye in my diary for Bank Hol weekend

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  5. It's not easy on your own, my husband died over 32 years ago now and I still miss him but I am an independent person and find it hard even from the chikdren to help me. They are there it I need help which is nice. I am happy in my own little world with my garden and hobbies, I have a few friends from when I moved and I do keep in touch with also I have my 2 sisters and 2 brothers.
    Have a nice weekend Sue.

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    1. I don't like asking the children to help - as my Mum used to say " I didn't have children so they could look after me!" They are busy with work and now children of their own but would be there for me if I needed them more

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  6. The food sounds great - you certainly are eating 'properly'!
    A new toy sounds intrigung - I'm looking forward to hearing more.
    Yes, a quiet week is a real necessity now and again and I'm glad you recognise it.
    I find I am a good deal more discriminating about what NEEDS doing and what isn't all that crucial really - to my mind, anyway. Sometimes I leave things that I shouldn't really and there are a lot of 'loose ends' but generally it's OK.

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    1. It's the driving that tires me I think. Colin loved driving and I never have so he always drove. Someweeks I seem to be in and out all the time, of course it doesn't help that I live in the middle of nowhere

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  7. I do worry about being left on my own (although who says I will be, I might be the one who dies first!) and how I'd cope, but I guess you do what you have to. And you're definitely an inspiration, Sue.

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  8. A friend used to constantly tell me how lucky i was to be 'footloose and fancy-free', living on my own - I felt like punching her! It's hard work with noone to ease the burden! I've been on my own a long time and while it doesn't make for a worry-free life, you definately do get used to it.

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    1. I miss having someone to make me a cuppa sometimes! but I'm getting used to it gradually

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    2. I agree Sue, I have been widowed in my twenties and then on my own after divorce in my fifties. Each time it was the little things I missed, being handed a cup of tea was certainly high on the list.
      Although now I am married to an American and he doesn't drink tea, nor does he know how to make a good cuppa. So I am still on my own with that one.
      I think you are doing brilliantly. I often read back over your posts and comments when I need a bit of encouragement.
      Love from Pam in Texas.x

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    3. I know what you mean about the cuppa-thing; upside of having to make your own is that I find I don't drink as much as I would otherwise, and also don't eat as many of the accompanying biscuits (maybe?!)...

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  9. It sounds like a good week. You certainly kept busy! It's hard work cooking for one! If you buy any veggies or salad stuff can you really eat it all before it goes bad without having it every day? I found it difficult to go from five to two. Mum says it's not easy cooking for one. I worry she doesn't eat a lot but she seems to do okay. Hope you have an enjoyable weekend.

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    1. I keep frozen veg in the freezer which is very useful and buy more fresh fruit than veg. Love fresh fruit!

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  10. I think you're doing marvelously well. I lived by myself for 17 years until I met Mike, my second husband. I didn't find it hard as my first husband rarely did anything in the house or garden and I don't think I remember him ever making me a cuppa. Mike brings me one every morning in bed. If anything happened and I found myself alone again, I wouldn't stay in this big house with its 125ft garden, but move somewhere smaller. If you ever fancy a visitor email me, it's on my blog. I 'd love to see your garden.

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  11. Sometimes when my other half really starts to drive me crazy I wonder what it would be like if he was not around and I have to say that it would probably be horrible, maddening as he is. You seem to be coping well and certainly eating healthily!

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  12. You are doing very well. I can only hope that if I am left alone I cope half as well.

    God bless.

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